Simone de Beauvoir

Feminist existentialism

Modern influential 187 sayings

Sayings by Simone de Beauvoir

The world is not a collection of things, but a collection of relationships.

1947 — The Ethics of Ambiguity
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To love is to will the other's freedom.

1947 — The Ethics of Ambiguity
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The meaning of life is not to be found in some transcendent realm, but in our concrete existence.

1947 — The Ethics of Ambiguity
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The human being is a being-for-itself, a being who is always in the process of becoming.

1947 — The Ethics of Ambiguity
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I am awfully greedy; I want everything from life. I want to be a woman and to be a man, to have many friends and to have loneliness, to work much and write good books, to travel and enjoy myself, to be selfish and to be unselfish… You see, it is difficult to get all which I want. And then when I do not succeed I get mad with anger.

Undated, but reflects themes in her autobiographical works and interviews. — General statement, often quoted, reflecting her aspirations and frustrations.
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I was made for another planet altogether. I mistook the way.

Undated, but appears in various quote compilations and is often attributed to her introspective writings. — A reflection on feeling out of place or unconventional.
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To catch a husband is an art; to hold him is a job.

Undated, but widely attributed. — A witty and cynical observation on marriage.
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Buying is a profound pleasure.

Undated, but appears in various quote collections. — A somewhat unexpectedly mundane, yet relatable, statement from a serious philosopher.
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What is an adult? A child blown up by age.

Undated, but appears in various quote collections. — A witty and slightly absurd observation about aging.
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When women act like human beings, they are accused of behaving like men.

Undated, but consistent with themes in 'The Second Sex'. — From her writings, a sharp critique of societal double standards.
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If the feminine issue is so absurd, is because the male's arrogance made it 'a discussion.'

1949 — From 'The Second Sex', highlighting the absurdity of gender discussions driven by male perspectives.
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Her wings are cut and then she is blamed for not knowing how to fly.

1949 — A metaphor from 'The Second Sex' illustrating the societal limitations placed on women.
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No one is more arrogant toward women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious about his virility.

1949 — From 'The Second Sex', a psychological observation on male behavior.
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I am too intelligent, too demanding, and too resourceful for anyone to be able to take charge of me entirely. No one knows me or loves me completely. I have only myself.

Undated, but widely quoted and consistent with her persona. — A statement reflecting her strong sense of independence and self-reliance.
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She was ready to deny the existence of space and time rather than admit that love might not be eternal.

1954 — From 'The Mandarins', a novel, describing a character's romantic idealism.
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In the face of an obstacle which is impossible to overcome, stubbornness is stupid.

Undated, but appears in various quote collections. — A pragmatic and witty observation.
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There is something in the New York air that makes sleep useless.

1948 — From her travelogue 'America Day by Day', reflecting on her experience in New York.
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I am better at dry sadness than at cold anger, for I remained dry eyed until now, as dry as smoked fish, but my heart is a kind of dirty soft custard inside.

September 1950 — From a letter to Nelson Algren, expressing her emotional state after a visit.
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This advice is absurd. Precisely because the idea of femininity is artificially defined by customs and fashion, it is imposed on every woman from the outside. The individual is not free to shape the idea of femininity at will.

1949 — From 'The Second Sex', critiquing the external imposition of femininity.
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Man vainly forgets that his anatomy also contains hormones and testicles.

1949 — From 'The Second Sex', a sarcastic remark pointing out a male oversight in biological determinism.
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