Gloria Steinem

Feminist leader

Contemporary influential 179 sayings

Sayings by Gloria Steinem

The future depends entirely on what each of us does every day; a movement is only people moving.

Approx. 1970s-2000s — On activism and collective action.
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Self-esteem isn't everything; it's just that there's nothing without it.

1992 — On personal value and its importance, often linked to 'Revolution from Within'.
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We learn most where we know the least.

Approx. 1990s-2000s — On learning and curiosity.
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When unique voices are united in a common cause, they make history.

Approx. 1970s-2000s — On collective action and social change.
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We are so different, yet so much the same.

Approx. 1990s-2000s — On human connection and diversity.
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Experience is everything. Somebody who has experienced something is more expert at it than the experts.

Approx. 1990s-2000s — On the value of lived experience.
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Law and justice are not always the same. When they aren't, destroying the law may be the first step toward changing it.

Approx. 1970s-2000s — On legal reform and justice.
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The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn. We are filled with popular wisdom of several centuries just past, and we are terrified to give it up.

Approx. 1970s-2000s — On challenging ingrained societal norms and assumptions.
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We tend to forget that every revolution or social change is like a tree — it grows from the bottom up, not the top down. However small it may seem to begin, that does not matter because it will grow.

Approx. 1970s-2000s — On the nature of social movements.
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When the past dies, there is mourning, but when the future dies our imaginations are compelled to carry it on.

Approx. 1990s-2000s — On loss, grief, and the power of imagination.
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Laughter is the only free emotion—the only one that can't be compelled. We can be made to fear. We can even be made to believe we're in love because, if we're kept dependent and isolated for long enough, we bond in order to survive. But laughter explodes like an aha! It comes when the punch line changes everything that has gone before, when two opposites collide and make a third, when we suddenly see a new reality... laughter is an orgasm of the mind.

2015 — From her book 'My Life on the Road'.
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Dying seems less sad than having lived too little.

Approx. 1990s-2000s — On living a full life.
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I myself cried when I got angry, then became unable to explain why I was angry in the first place. Later I would discover this was endemic among female human beings. Anger is supposed to be 'unfeminine' so we suppress it - until it overflows. I could see that not speaking up made my mother feel worse. This was my first hint of the truism that depression is anger turned inward; thus women are twice as likely to be depressed.

Approx. 1980s-1990s — On women's emotional expression and societal expectations.
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When humans are ranked instead of linked, everyone loses.

2015 — On hierarchy versus equality and connection. From 'My Life on the Road'.
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A lot of my generation are living out the un-lived lives of our mothers.

2015 — On intergenerational influence and societal expectations on women. From 'My Life on the Road'.
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Also, one of the simplest paths to deep change is for the less powerful to speak as much as they listen, and for the more powerful to listen as much as they speak.

2015 — On equitable communication and social change. From 'My Life on the Road'.
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If you find yourself drawn to an event against all logic, go. The universe is telling you something.

2015 — On intuition and following inner guidance. From 'My Life on the Road'.
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It is more rewarding to watch money change the world than watch it accumulate.

Approx. 1990s-2000s — On the purpose of wealth.
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Hope is a form of planning.

2010 — From an interview for the HBO/Kunhardt Film Foundation Documentary 'Gloria: In Her Own Words'.
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The old image of one person with a torch is part of the problem, not the solution. We each need a torch if we are to see where we're going. And together, we create so much more light.

Approx. 2000s — On collective leadership and shared responsibility, rejecting the 'passing the torch' metaphor.
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