When you are about to say something, ask yourself, 'Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind?'
Stoic philosopher, former slave
When you are about to say something, ask yourself, 'Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind?'
Stoic philosopher, former slave
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c. 108 AD
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